Happiness Is A Voyage

We convince ourselves that life will be better once we are married, have a baby, then another.
Then we get frustrated because our children are not old enough, and that all will be well when they are older.
Then we are frustrated because they reach adolescence and we must deal with them. Surely we’ll be happier when they grow out of the teen years.
We tell ourselves our life will be better when our spouse gets his/her act together, when we have a nicer car, when we can take a vacation, when we finally retire.
The truth is that there is no better time to be happy than right now.
If not, then when?
Your life will always be full of challenges. It is better to admit as much and to decide to be happy in spite of it all.
For the longest time, it seemed that life was about to start.
Real life.
But there was always some obstacle along the way, an ordeal to get through, some work to be finished, some time to be given, a bill to be paid. Then life would start.
I finally came to understand that those obstacles were life.
That point of view helped me see that there isn’t any road to happiness.
Happiness IS the road.
So, enjoy every moment.
Stop waiting for school to end, for a return to school, to lose ten pounds, to gain ten ounds, for work to begin, to get married, for Friday evening, for Sunday morning, waiting for a new car, for your mortgage to be paid off, for spring, for summer, for fall, for winter, for the first or the fifteenth of the month, for your song to be played on the radio, to die, to be reborn… before deciding to be happy.
Happiness is a voyage, not a destination.
There is no better time to be happy than… NOW!
Live and enjoy the moment.



Author: Unknown

Chinese New Year 2012

Tahun ni dah masuk dua kali sambut perayaan ni..
Tapi pening gak la, satu tahun ada tiga kali raya..
Tahun ni Ida pakai Cheong Sam..
Hajat nak buat sendiri, tapi salah jahit lak..
So, malam Tahun baru sibuk gi shopping ngan mertua cari baju untuk Ida..
Cute gak Ida pakai Cheong Sam..
Rezki Ida, dapat 'Ang Pau' duit raya dari Keluarga Cina sebelah mertua..
Kitorang suami & isteri pun ada dapat gak..
Selalunya kalo ikut adat, kitorang tak dapat..
Maybe sebab Tahun Naga kot...

Weekend hari tu kitorang ada urusan kat KL..
Tumpang tidur kat rumah kakak yang baru dia beli..
Memang nak datang tengok rumah baru dia pun..
Malam tu kitorang keluar makan 'Sate Kajang'..
Banyak gak Ida makan malam tu..
Penatnya jadual minggu lepas..
Banyak sangat travel..
Puas gak la Ida berjalan ikut kitorang..